Energy Loves Clarity

What does prosperity mean? It's so much more than shifting your money mindset. In fact, a mindset is just the surface. Affirmations are just the surface. We're talking about redefining and redesigning your energetic imprint to receive and trust. That's really what we're talking about. It's not about the money. That's the external thing. It's really about clarity and trust in receiving and what we're realizing is that this shows up in so many different areas of our life. This is how we block ourselves from receiving supporters in a romantic relationship, or even in the way that we nourish ourselves with food. 

If we're blocking ourselves from receiving, the top three ways that we believe things are not available tend to come through. We believe we don't have enough time, money or support. And if we're not open to receiving what is available around us, then we're not receiving and we're not living in prosperity. Most of the time, we're not open to receiving because we don't trust. Either we don't trust the other person, we don't trust the circumstances, or we don't trust ourselves. And usually what it comes down to is that we don't trust ourselves. 

That last 1% of prosperity consciousness comes down to trusting even when the results are not there .That's a deep, deep layer of trust that reveals intimacy on the whole level of "In to me I see”. 

So, what does energy loves clarity even mean? If we talk about money in the sense of energy, if we just assume or we become curious that everything in our world is energy, food is energy, thoughts are energy, money is energy. Everything is an exchange of energy. The energy of food and how it affects our well being and that if we are in a state of fight or flight, we don't absorb the nutrients from our food as easily as we would in a relaxed state. Our thoughts, our energy, our beliefs are energy. Everything around us is a form of energy. It's a frequency, it's a vibration, and it's a co creation. 

Energy is not created or destroyed. It just changes state. In our prosperity course, we've been talking a lot about how money is energy. It's an exchange of energy. Maybe you've listened to my podcast on “Are You a Conscious Investor or Unconscious Spender”. During that episode, we talk a lot about the energy of intention, and it's important to understand that whatever relationship we are entering, the place that we come from, when we enter that relationship is what expands. Whether you're choosing to invest in yourself in some way or invest in something, if you're stepping into that space from a place of scarcity or fear, then that energy expands. If you step into it from a place of trust, then that energy expands. Money is just like a fertilizer, it expands whatever energy your intention is when stepping into a co-creation of anything. 

Every decision you make on where you choose to invest or put your money creates momentum on the path of where you're going. This is really important because the words that we use, it starts with the words that we use. And there are just a couple of really powerful shifts that we can make that actually put that vibration outthere of what we believe to be true. When we find ourselves using disempowering language such as “I can't”, then we just want to take a step back and be like, “what am I really saying? What I'm really saying is, I don't believe in myself.” If you say I can't, I can't is a very disempowering statement to begin with. “I don't” is a little bit better than I can't. But what's even more empowering is “I choose.” So, here's an example, “I can't afford that.” We can shift that into “I don't want to pay for that right now.” And if we want to be even more empowering, we can just say, “I choose to invest my resources in other places.” That would be probably the most empowering thing. Maybe there's even something more than that but that would be an example of shifting our language from disempowering to empowering. We could even look at it like, “I don't have the time or I don't have the support to stepping into that energy of what is already available to support me at this time.” So often the support that you're seeking is right there.You're just not open to receiving it. This is like a really glamorous survivor strategy for women who are independent, women who are go getters. So often the very thing that we're seeking support on, the teacher shows up right when you're ready, when you're really in alignment, the teacher shows up when you're ready.

The next step is, are you going to allow yourself to receive the support and this is actually a gratitude block. There are a couple of blocks around gratitude because gratitude is the foundation for prosperity, and prosperity is embodied trust. One of the gratitude blocks is just believing that you've had to do it all on your own and that nobody's actually really there to support you. So thinking about coming from a place of scarcity and lack, about what's not available, “I've had to do it all on my own or my parents never supported me or my husband didn't support me, or I'm a single mom or I do everything on my own.” That kind of thing is a really big gratitude and receiving block that takes you into lack consciousness versus prosperity consciousness. 

So what does energy loves clarity mean? Well, it means so many things on so many levels. But let's just start with your language and your words. Do you really believe and mean what you say? And if you really slow down to listen to the words that you use. And a really good check on this is to notice the language that your children use because they're repeating what they hear you say. Do you really believe that things are not available? Do you really believe you don't have the time, that you don't have the money or you don't have the support in certain things? Those are the top three blocks that I see.

Are you willing to become the source of your time and money and support? There's a total different shift in just taking that sovereign ownership of like, “okay, I decide, I choose, I choose to do this with my time. I choose what I'm not available for and what I am available for. I choose to do this with my money. I choose what my values are based on where I spend my time and my money, and I choose what level of support I receive. So if I feel unsupported, where can I open up to receiving more support or love could be another word for that.” And that could come from your friendship or your parents, your siblings, your spouse. It could come from your community. It could come from a number of places.

So, energy loves clarity and that means start with your words. Be intentional with the reality you want to create, because that starts with your words, which become your thoughts, your beliefs, your actions, your reality. We know this, and yet so often many people are missing the most simple thing, which is how they disempower through their language. 

Another example of Energy Loves Clarity is through your words, but also your actions and your decisions. If you say you want something and you want to believe that it's true, well, the next step is to take an action towards that truth that you want to embody. It's not like we're in management manifestation land where we can just believe the positive thoughts and it's going to happen. It requires aligned action. 

Every decision you make creates momentum. That momentum is going to go one way or the other based on the decision that you made. So if you say you believe, you don't. If you're willing to step into the space of believing that support is available, well, then it shows up. Do you allow yourself to receive it or do you come back to that story again? So you're shifting the belief, but you'll always be met with how do you really feel and what do you really believe? And then there's your choice and your choice, which is your decision, creates the momentum. Are you going to allow yourself to be supported? Are you going to allow yourself to go on that trip or buy that house or go on that date? Are you going to allow yourself to see where you are supported? In the world I live in, supporting women through this, it's amazing they've been supported financially from their loved ones when they believed that they didn't, when they weren't. It's amazing in the way that it shows up at work, like a bonus comes in or an opportunity becomes available to speak in their business to host a retreat where they can then receive excess financial support or even just professional support or support with your kids and your family. Like, it really is showing up.

When you step into that energy of gratitude and being grateful, then you're giving clarity to that energy of gratitude, which you then become aware of more to be grateful for. It's really quite that simple. When you start to shift and you just live, you just completely shift. You shift your reality and it begins with your thoughts, your words, your thoughts, and then your actions. So your actions come from your decision and that's where you get to really check with yourself. You say you believe this, but what do you really believe? And what you really believe is what you take action on. I always say, if you want to see where your values are, take a look at your schedule and your bank, your time and your money, because that's where our values are going. We have a choice in that we all have the same 24 hours in the day. We all get to choose how we spend our time. We get to choose how we're paid, what we're paid for, and how we spend our money. So therefore, we are the source of time and money. Everyone has a choice in that. You can choose to say no. You can choose to say yes. And it's just totally shifting into that place of empowerment.

Another way that energy loves clarity is how important it is to treat. For example, in time, money, and support, and how we respond to that in a relationship. So we're treating it as a co creation. We're empowering through our language in our choice, our action, and then we're choosing to facilitate and grow a healthy relationship. So it's not like a one night stand kind of thing. It's a relationship that you nurture and you continue nurturing through intention. It's really important to be intentional through daily practice and that might sound like a lot at first, but if you're feeling that way, then I would invite you to consider that your expectations might be too high. 

Daily practice is just being intentional. Over time, that daily intention just becomes who you are, and it's no longer work. You embody a new belief. You embody a new reality. For example, a person who wants to create okay, first we start by saying, I want to lose weight or I want to be healthy but what we really need to do is create healthy habits. Once we set the intention to create healthy habits daily, even if it's just something overtime, that just is the habit. That just is who you are. You no longer have to think about it. The way that we spend, unconsciously spend or consciously invest what you know to be true based on the decisions you make, creates your reality. It's just what your priorities are. If you choose to invest a couple of months in self care or in a gym membership or yoga practice or getting a facial, or maybe for you it's buying organic foods or maybe investing in a program for personal development or spiritual growth that becomes normal for you. It might feel hard at first because you've never done it before, but when you see the benefits, that becomes your reality. It just becomes your reality that this price of transformation or the value of transformation is priceless. Once you know the value of it and you choose to make it non negotiable, it just becomes part of your intention for the day, the week, the month or the year because it's aligned with your values.

When we talk about energy loves clarity, we talk about having systems in place to help us make decisions based on our values because it's important to be intentional, energetically, to create a container and relationship through tracking. So, just like a parent with children. Like if you don't have some way to just check in with your kids, whether they're doing their homework or how they're relating with their friends, like and you really don't know what's going on, well, it's then you just don't know. You're not creating an intentional relationship. Intentional does not mean control. Intention is just stepping in, like creating the time and space for what you value. That's all it is. It's connection. It doesn't mean that it has to be this all or nothing, control or avoid type thing, which is something that I see so often happening. We create a story about what it means to all of a sudden put time and attention towards something, when all it really means is it's really just taking ownership and energy that shows up in the world all around us through the foods that we choose to nurse with the people that we allow into our lives, the types of relationships that we have. The friendships, the romantic relationship, the marriage, the relationship with your children, your parents, your siblings, relationship to money, relationship to nature, relationship to everything, your spiritual growth to God, to anything that you could think of. When we nurture it, we say this matters. When we keep choosing a place to support it, then that energy grows. That's how it works. 

Whatever you put your intention into grows. What you focus on, what you put your intention to, expands. So my question for you is, what do you want to expand in your life? What do you want to expand? Do you want more time, freedom? Do you want more community? Do you want deeper relationships? Do you want better health? Do you want to grow a business? Do you want to feel resourced? Do you want to grow in your own personal development? Do you want to grow your relationships with your parents, your siblings, your husband or wife? What is it in your life right now that you want to expand? Then the next question is, what do I need to be clear that this is my intention, so what do I need to do? If I say this is what my intention is right now, I really want to focus on my health, then what do I need to do? What support do I need? What decisions do I want to make? I always ask myself three questions: is this aligned with my values? Is it the right time? Does it have to be me before I say yes to anything? Or does it have to be me or the other person if it's a co creation? In other words, if there's something that you're leaning into and growing around, oftentimes I find that the teacher that you're looking for steps on right when you're ready. We're always kind of being met with that. Where are we? Are we really ready to step into who we're becoming? Or are we going to stay in the space over here of who we've been right? This is what coaches do. We activate you to step into who you are becoming, not who you've been. Moving forward into a new space of possibility. And we get to ask ourselves, is this experience aligned with my values? Is it the right time? And does it have to be me or is this the right person for me? Three really great simple questions that you can use to ask yourself.

So today, I just want to invite you to consider, “what area of my life am I ready to step into or expand or grow? And what am I ready to make a decision on ?How am I ready to take that next step?” Because that next step is the clarity for everything in your life to respond. It's like the universe, God responds to your decision. The most amazing thing is that we find that everything that we want, everything that we know is possible, is right there. It's always there. We just get to choose to see that it's there.

Here's the key, we have to be present enough to be aware that it's there. We have to slow down enough to see that actually the very thing that we are moving into right there because that's how it happens. You can't come up with that idea if it's not in you, so it's in you because it's available and it's time and you get to choose. And that's where the clarity comes in. It's really important to know what you're available for and what you're not available for. It's important to take ownership that whatever energy you're stepping into a co creation with, is the energy that will expand.

The next step is just to trust. Trust looks like not being attached. It's like making the decision without expectations. How the energy in your life is showing up in clarity because the biggest blocks around this, the toxic cycle of people pleasing, indecision and procrastination, are all really big blocks to clarity that just don't allow opportunities to come to us if we're not clear. The world doesn't know. God doesn't know what to give us. The universe doesn't know how to respond because we're not actually clear on what we want.

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Jen Mons is an author, speaker, mentor and coach for high achieving purpose driven ready to shift the paradigm of feminine leadership and redefine excellence and wealth through 5 Element Wellth, Prosperity, Daily Devotion Journaling and Soul Wisdom Imprinting.